• 3 reasons why forcing employees back to the office is doomed to fail

    3 reasons why forcing employees back to the office is doomed to fail

    Many CEOs are are currently nixing work-from-home programs and forcing all of their employees back into the office full time.

    And without fail, they all seem shocked and appalled when employees dare to question their decision.

    Jamie Dimon, the CEO of JP Morgan Chase, in particular was just outraged that thousands of his employees spoke against it and signed a petition to preserve flexible working. He went on an angry rant full of curse words in a town hall meeting where he claimed that being together in the office is the ONLY way to be creative and productive because there you can communicate and collaborate in person.

    He said that he didn’t care how many people signed the petition and added things like:

    Don’t give me this s— that work-from-home-Friday works. I call a lot of people on Fridays, and there’s not a goddamn person you can get a hold of.

    A lot of you were on the f— Zoom…and you were sending texts to each other about what an a— the other person is.

    Most recently, Danish pharma giant Novo Nordisk announced not only a massive round of layoffs but also that all office workers must be in the office full time going forward. This triggered a lot of pushback from employees because Novo has had a very flexible policy of letting people work from home when it makes sense for them and the team.

    So I thought I should do a public service for all of these CEOs and try to help them understand why their employees don’t just accept it and knuckle under when their freedom to work from home is taken away.

    There are three main reasons why.

    1: Loss aversion

    The work of Daniel Kahneman and many others has proven that we humans hate losing stuff. Taking something away from us – even stuff we don’t necessarily value very highly – can trigger intense negative feelings.

    If employees currently have the freedom to work from home, taking it away from them will absolutely trigger loss aversion.

    2: Working from home is amazing

    People who have the flexibility to work from home at least part time love it. Research shows that it has a large number of positive effects, including:

    Productivity – people get more work done, partly because they experience fewer interruptions than in the office.

    Better work-life balance – it’s easier to handle all of your responsibilities outside of work when you can work from home. You also spend less time commuting.

    Feeling of trust – employees feel trusted by the company and therefore more loyal and engaged.

    Of course they don’t want to lose all of this and of course they’re going to push back against any decision that would make their work lives significantly worse.

    3: Forcing people back to the office is meaningless

    If the company could demonstrate conclusively to employees that the only way the company can move forward and be successful is by stopping working from home, then I think people would accept it.

    For instance, if my job changed from an internal role to a customer facing role that required me to be physically present in a location, then it’s clear why I can no longer work from home and that decision would have a legitimate purpose to back it up.

    But companies never do that. Instead they make a lot of noise about “fostering collaboration” or “making faste decisions” or “strengthening the culture” while never actually demonstrating why that can’t be done while still giving employees the option to work from home some of the time.

    And here’s another thing: Even on days where people are in the office, a large percentage of the work or the coordination they perform is still digital through email, chat or video meetings. Even more so, if the company has people in different locations.

    You don’t go to a coworker’s desk and interrupt their workflow every time you need help with something. You don’t call a meeting every time you have a question. You don’t go to your manager’s office every time you need to make a decision. Or at least, I really, really hope you don’t!

    If 50% of your work day in the office is virtual anyway, you’ve gotta ask yourself why you couldn’t have spent 50% of the week working from home.

    And that’s why employees will see the decision to force them back into the office and thereby make their work-life significantly worse as a bad and meaningless decision.

    The upshot

    My video on how to make remote workers productive and happy.

    All of this of course also means that if the company doesn’t listen and reintroduce flexible working, employees are going to vote with their feet and go find better jobs. And who’s going to go first? The most qualified people as always will find it easiest to get new jobs. That leads to brain drain.

    Some people see this as a good thing. Just today I heard the dumbest argument I have ever heard for forcing people back to the office: It will help the company identify who is not committed to being in the office full time.

    Wow. Just wow. That rationale could be used to justify any mistreatment of employees; anyone who speaks out is just not committed to the organization!

    The good news is that many companies are deliberately choosing to be remote, like Spotify, Canva and Atlassian.

    Even Dimon has since apologized for his rant. Not for maligning his remote workers. Not for claiming that they’re all slacking when they work from home. No – he apologized for cursing.

    Jamie, Jamie, Jamie… the problem was not you dropping some F-bombs. The problem was your complete inability to trust your employees and to recognize that there are more ways of working effectively than the one you prefer.


  • Book my comedy show for your workplace

    Book my comedy show for your workplace

    My brand new comedy show “How To Become Danish In One Hour” is getting such amazing feedback that I am now also offering it in a version for workplaces with a mix of Danish and non-Danish employees.

    The show is perfect for:

    • Companies in Denmark who want to help their expat employees thrive and succeed.
    • Danish companies operating in other countries who want to help their local employees understand the Danish culture and work style.

    It’s a hilarious positive team-building experience that will have people laughing together but it’s also an insightful commentary on what it means to be Danish and how to have a good time in this silly little country.

    Read all about it and book it here.


  • My best and weirdest souvenirs from 20+ years of international speaking

    After almost 25 years as an international speaker I have an… interesting collection of souvenirs. Here are my 5 favorites, including a super weird one!


  • How To Celebrate Mistakes At Work

    How To Celebrate Mistakes At Work

    Everybody makes mistakes at work. But many workplaces pretend like that’s not the case and tend to punish any mistakes in various ways.

    That is destined to fail. When mistakes are punished, employees don’t stop making mistakes, they just hide the mistakes they do make or try to push the blame onto others. Or else, everyone starts playing it really safe and never take any chances or try new solutions and approaches for fear of getting it wrong.

    In this free webinar we showed how companies can instead CELEBRATE mistakes. It sounds crazy but it’s a brilliant tool to boost creativity and learning.

    Content includes:

    • Why punishing mistakes never works
    • How celebrating mistakes unlocks creativity, innovation and learning
    • How to celebrate mistakes at work
    • Great examples from happy workplaces around the world

    You can watch the whole thing here as well as get my slides + other links and sources.


  • Why you should come to Copenhagen for the CHO Academy

    Our Chief Happiness Officer Academy not only gives you three days to dive into the theory and practice of happiness at work but it also gives you a chance to experience Copenhagen – the world’s happiest city.

    During the Academy, you will:
    Visit Tivoli – one of the world’s prettiest amusement parks
    • Have dinner at some great Copenhagen restaurants
    • Do some sightseeing with the other participants
    • Go on a site visit to one of Denmark’s happiest workplaces
    • Have the farewell dinner in my home

    Don’t get me wrong – the content of the Academy is the main focus but getting to experience Copenhagen is a really nice bonus. This citys is AMAZING.

    Read more about the CHO Academy and sign up here.


  • Our 5 best tips to beat the post-holiday blues

    Our 5 best tips to beat the post-holiday blues

    Aaaahhh… Summer vacation. Depending on your fancy it’s time to lie on the beach with a good book, wear out your shoe soles exploring a strange city or scream your head off skydiving or in some other adrenaline-driven pursuit.

    But invariably the vacation ends and you go back to work, and that transition can be a little rough.

    Do you know that feeling? You come back to work happy and full of energy – but by the end of the first work day, you’re already feeling tired an unhappy. It’s almost like you didn’t have a vacation at all.

    So here are a five tips to help you stay happy when you get back to work.

    1: While you’re away, get away

    Don’t take the company mobile and laptop on vacation. Don’t check your voice mail and email.

    The point of a vacation is to get away and go to a different mental space, and if you’re preoccupied with work, chances are you’ll both enjoy your vacation less and get less relaxation out of it.

    2: Let yourself get behind

    When you get back from your vacation, you will invariably have fallen behind and have a lot of work to catch up on. There will be a ton of voice mails, emails and tasks that need your attention. THAT’S FINE!!! It’s unavoidable and it’s not your fault.

    Look at it this way: If you can leave the company for two weeks and there’s no work waiting for you, you’re not really needed there.

    So don’t expect to have a clear desk on your first day back – allow yourself to be behind and to catch up steadily.

    3: Start with some easy tasks

    When you get back to work, don’t immediately throw yourself at the toughest, hairiest most complicated tasks you have. Ease into work by doing something easy and simple – something you know you can do. Once you’re back in full swing you can go at the tough tasks.

    4: Don’t overwork to catch up

    It can be really tempting to work long hours to catch up after your vacation. DON’T!!! Work regular hours and stick to point 2 above.

    5: Ask for help if you need it

    If you find it difficult to catch up, don’t be afraid to ask your co-workers or manager for help. It’s important for you to be aware of any outstanding tasks that may have become critically late in your absence, and if you could use some help – it’s your responsibility to ask for it! It also greatly increases the chance that you will actually get help.

    If you use these tips, you may find that your vacations feel more like vacations and that you can be even happier at work.

    A warning

    But on a fundamental level, there is something wrong with the idea that work drains you of energy and weekends and vacations recharge you. I know that this is how most people feel – but that’s not how it should be.

    If work typically drains you of energy – if every week ends up draining you of life so you barely make it to Friday afternoon where you can finally relax – then something’s wrong. Don’t accept that state of affairs just because everyone else does.

    When you’re happy at work, work can actually be a regenerative activity that leaves you with more energy so you leave the workplace with a spring in your step most days!

    And THAT is the ultimate way to beat the post-vacation blues: Have a job you actually like!

    Your take

    Do you ever get the post-vacation blues? What do you do to beat’em? Have you also noticed that vacations these days seem to be more tiring than work (as this article says)?

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  • To new free webinars: Celebrating mistakes at work + AI and happiness

    We have two new free webinars coming up – join us and get some useful, actionable insights into themes around happiness at work. See all our upcoming events here.

    Free webinar August 20: How To Celebrate mistakes at work

    Everybody makes mistakes at work. But many workplaces pretend like that’s not the case and tend to punish any mistakes in various ways.

    That is destined to fail. When mistakes are punished, employees don’t stop making mistakes, they just hide the mistakes they do make or try to push the blame onto others. Or else, everyone starts playing it really safe and never take any chances or try new solutions and approaches for fear of getting it wrong.

    In this free webinar we’re going to see how companies can instead CELEBRATE mistakes. It sounds crazy but it’s a brilliant tool to boost creativity and learning.


    Free webinar September 3: AI and happiness at work

    AI is being introduced in many workplaces but what’s been missing is a discussion on how to do it in a way that doesn’t kill the happiness, motivation and creativity of employees.

    In this free webinar we’re going to see how companies can introduce AI in ways that make employees’ jobs more fun and interesting instead of just making people afraid to lose their jobs.


  • Be VERY careful with the Scandinavian languages

    I’ve been asked to give talks around Scandinavia many times but when you speak in another Nordic language, you have to be super careful because the same words can mean something VERY different.

    Here are some of my funniest examples.


  • How to identify and fix employees’ problems

    How to identify and fix employees’ problems

    No workplace is perfect. Even the happiest workplaces in the world have problems. But great workplaces are good at finding and solving their problems.

    If we want to build happy and successful workplaces, we can’t only focus on doing good things for employees, we need to be focused and strategic about identifying and fixing any problems employees see.

    In this free webinar we showed how to do it. Content includes:

    • Why it’s not just enough to do more good things for employees – we need to address their problems too
    • How to identify and solve problems in the workplace
    • How to handle problems without losing sight of the good things in the workplace
    • Great examples from happy workplaces around the world

    You can get my slides and other materials for the video here.


  • Mighty?

    Mighty?

    Don’t think I’ve ever been called “mighty” before but I kinda enjoy it!



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